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Accepting
a Babysitting Job |
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Remember when accepting a babysitting job, you need
to:
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check your availability,
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check potential conflicts (tests, games,
deadlines),
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check with your parent; and
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allow a free night each weekend (at least every
other weekend) so that you can have time for your friends or for
yourself.
Most of all, remember that when someone asks you to
care for their children, they have given you a huge compliment, and
if you accept, you have accepted the responsibility for a child's
life.
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When
Babysitting Gets in the Way |
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What should you do when you have
a babysitting job on the very night that: |
your school's
basketball team plays in the finals,
you must finish your
science fair project,
your best friend
decides to have a slumber party,
_______________. (Fill
in the blank with something you really want to do.)
Doing
the Right Thing |
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There is only one right
answer! There aren't even any "almost right"
answers. When you accept a babysitting job, you are really
entering into a kind of contract - a verbal contract. In the
business world - and the babysitting world - and babysitting means you
have entered the business world - verbal contracts must be
honored. Successful businesses know the importance of being
reliable. Successful babysitters know the importance of
dependability, too. |
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What's In It for Me? |
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Doing the right thing can be a
little bit of a downer at first. If you concentrate on the fact
that you are disappointed and that you really want to be somewhere
else, it will stay a downer all night. Actually, the way that
you can get yourself out of the doldrums is the same way that we
talked about in the Safe Sitter® course for comforting young children
who are sad or hurt. DISTRACTION! Once you
get to your job and begin to think of the children you are caring for,
you will find yourself distracted from your disappointment. It
won't turn out to be half as dreary an evening as you thought it
would. In fact, you'll not only have some fun, but you'll also
earn some money for your next night out with your friends. |
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Words to the Wise |
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A few tips may help prevent a
replay of your disappointment. Remember when accepting a
babysitting job, you need to: |
check your availability
check potential
conflicts (tests, games, deadlines),
check with your
parent; AND
allow a free night each
weekend (at least every other weekend) so that you can have time for
your friends or for yourself.
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Most of all, remember that when
someone asks you to care for their children, they have given you a
huge compliment, and if you accept, you have accepted a huge adult
responsibility. |
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Stay
Safe and Make a Good Impression |
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You may be babysitting
for children that you've never watched before. To stay
safe and make a good first impression with a new family,
follow these tips: |
Always check references before
accepting a job.
Review the safety signal in your
manual.
Remind your parent (and the
back-up you've chosen) about the safety signal in case
you need them to pick you up.
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When you arrive at your
new job: |
Introduce yourself.
Speak clearly and loudly.
Look the adult right in the eye.
Smile!
Shake hands firmly with the
adult.
Greet each person (adults and
children) in the room.
Address each child by name.
Get down on the child's eye
level.
Allow time for a young child to
get used to you before you get too close to them or try
to pick them up.
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This page was last updated
01/10/08
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